Have you ever noticed how much better you feel after helping someone? It fulfills part of our purpose here by sharing who we are.
The problem is when we think we have nothing to offer, or that what we have to offer isn’t going to change anything. This is part of what is referred to as the “imposter syndrome.”
Unfortunately, it helps neither you, nor those who need you exactly where you are at right now.
But what if I’ve fallen, Pamela? and can’t seem to get back up….
Well, in full disclosure, I know exactly what that is like. Like several times over. I’m kind of - ok, no, REALLY embarrassed to admit that, but it’s true. There are many times when I’ve felt like I have had nothing to give of value: nothing was working, my results were wavering (at least it appeared that way to me) and I just didn’t feel like I was able to help anyone. I lost faith in myself.
And that’s the point I came to. I was lacking belief in myself.
I found out why that was. Part of me wanted to stay where I was, while the other part of me FIGHTING was trying to save the world! I was split between yes and no. And as we know, when we are carrying split energy, the universe delivers split results causing us to doubt ourselves.
So what it really was ….. self sabotage.
Big surprise, right?! I had to decide to shift those no’s even a 1009 times a day to reverse the damage I had done. I might be down to only 113 times a day now, but at least I have seen the progress from my persistence. My results are significantly better just with the change in attitude!
And the depression lifts as I share too.
I think that was the biggest understanding. I kept feeling depressed and couldn’t understand why. My life is SO AMAZINGLY good! So why did I feel depressed? Because I wasn’t helping others to the extent I know I am capable of.
I got off track and after my ‘fall’ I decided to change my business around some. I thought it could work. But the depression really started kicking in. I started not wanting to work with people personally. I gained a whole bunch of weight. I hid in my office looking how to still run my business but from the sideline instead.
Didn’t work so well. And my depression was really really scary, along with adding anxiety through the roof when I DID work with people not sure I could really help them anymore. (Mixed results came from those sessions too, I will add!)
And then one day I was channeling my higher self when the realization hit me. Ok, when the truth hit me. (Channeling is rocking amazing!)
I know better.
I really do. I’ve preached it for how many years now?
But now I know it first hand, too. I understand the power and importance of sharing who we are, no matter what we think we have to offer, God and the Universe are going to provide the right experience to show up at the right time and it will be perfect enough.
And my husband said to me, you are happy again.
Yeah, I said with a smile.
Point 1: Belief in yourself will create MUCH better results in your work than doubt!
Point 2: When we share our gifts with others, it helps them, which is what we want, but it helps us too behind the scenes like in our mental health area ;)
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Pamela talks about her journey through the messages given to her...all the doubt and worry that comes with the responsibility for the gifts given. Which in itself is ironic if you read the channeling from January 25, 2012!